Gay
TV has landed in China. Starting from the beginning of April, every
Thursday at the odd time of 3pm, Hong Kong-based Phoenix Television
broadcasts Gay Connections on its website, live from Beijing. It’s a far cry from a peak hour slot on popular TV, but it’s a start.
And who is the host?
 | | Above: Gay Connections host Didier (pronounced “deedee-ay”) Zheng, top: le***ian singer Qiao Qiao with Didier. | Didier
(pronounced “deedee-ay”) Zheng is a 27-year-old AIDS activist. Single.
Cute. And with a charming French accent – he spent seven years studying
social sciences and psychology in Lyon and Paris.
Zheng says that while the show is freely available to anyone with an
Internet connection in China, the “government” messed with the format a
little.
Originally they had planned to include a matchmaking second half where
gays and le***ians could search for friends. But this was scrapped, says
Zheng. “The government didn’t think it was a good idea.”
Instead the 12-part show, which runs for an hour, has Zheng, the show’s
producer, Gang Gang, and openly gay guests chatting about homosexual
issues. The first show invited le***ian singer Qiao Qiao (pictured with
Didier above) and Chen Jianqi, a drag queen performer from Sichuan.
They discussed a range of topics including whether gay celebrities have
a responsibility to come out and set a good example to society, what it
means to be gay and social discrimination.
“I don’t hurt anyone by being gay,” said Qiao Qiao on the show. “But by
discriminating against me, you are hurting me.” Qiao Qiao has also won
fame among Beijing’s le***ians for running the capital’s hottest le***ian
night at Pipe Bar.
Zheng says Qiao Qiao sets a good role model for other le***ians. She is
in a long-term relationship with her girlfriend and the two are trying
to have a baby via artificial fertilisation – her egg, donated sperm
and her girlfriend’s womb. This is almost unheard of in China.
“In fact Qiao Qiao sets a good example to other le***ians,” Zheng says.
“She has a solid relationship, is starting a family and is successful
with her career.”
But when will China’s state TV be ready to host a gay chat show?
Not for a long time, says Zheng, although a state-run channel has already made sounds that it wants to make such a show.
“I was approached by a producer from Beijing Television [a state-owned
TV company in the capital],” says Zheng. “He asked me to be a presenter
for a similar gay chat show on their local channel. But in the end it
was not approved.”
The Chinese public is simply not ready, he says.
“A lot of straight people would feel ashamed if they saw something like
this on popular TV,” he says. “They would think this isn’t really what
most Chinese people are like, why should we have this on TV?”
It’s also difficult to find gay celebrities willing to appear on the show.
“It’s very hard to find guests,” Zheng says. “We invited a lot of gay Chinese actors and singers but they refused.”
Are there any topics out of bounds?
“We are not allowed to discuss anything in relation to legal matters or
the government,” Zheng says. “So we can mention gay marriage but we
can’t say anything about changing the law.”
Even so, the authorities have allowed the show to go ahead and its
website remains unblocked within the mainland. That in itself is good
news for China’s gays.
“You know I’ve been interviewed by a lot of foreign reporters… they
were all so surprised by the fact that this show is happening in
China,” says Zheng.
“They couldn’t imagine China could be so open to have this gay TV show.
I think the Chinese government must be very happy about this because
all this foreign news gives a good impression of China.”
Zheng, has a serious daytime job, which, he says, gives him a good background to be a host for Gay Connections.
He is China MSM (men who have sex with men) Manager at the Beijing
office of the Chi Heng Foundation, a Hong Kong-based NGO that helps
China’s AIDS orphans and supports public education programs to combat
discrimination against homosexuals on the mainland. Chi Heng runs
China’s only nationwide free gay and le***ian helplines.
“You know a lot of the other guys said ‘Why should Didier get it? I’m
younger and much more handsome than him’,” Zheng laughs. “But they were
all too young and they didn’t have any experience about the social
situation to do this kind of job. I think I have a good background, I
can give the program a lot of ideas.”
One of the show’s aims is to help gays and non-gays gain a better
understanding of homosexuality, linking directly with what Zheng thinks
is the most pressing problem for China’s gays right now.
“The biggest problem for gays here is a lack of information,” he says.
“How to be gay, what does it mean to be gay, and how to be happy as a
gay person.”
He adds that he thinks some older Chinese people would be afraid that
this kind of program would encourage straight people to “try” being
gay.
“It’s ridiculous that a TV program could turn someone gay,” he says.
“But it shows their lack of knowledge of what being gay really means.”
While China doesn’t have a hatred of gays powered by the religious
right common in some parts of the west, a lot of people here still
can’t accept homosexuality.
“In general I can say that the average person will accept you being gay
if you are a success – if you have a good job, you have money – but if
you don’t have this – say you are poor – then they will look down on
you, they will say you are not successful because you are gay,” he says.
It seems girls are more enlightened than men.
“In fact out of everyone I think Chinese women can accept gays much
easier than men,” he smiles. “They are very understanding about
homosexuality. Straight men are not as understanding.”
And it seems women – gay, straight or transgender - are more willing to
appear on the show. Following the first program’s dyke and drag queen
guests, the second installment of Gay Connections invited the alluring Tian Yuan, who played le***ian Yip in Hong Kong dyke movie, Butterfly (2004), to talk about showing gay movies to the general public.
It’s hard to imagine anyone objecting to a movie starring Tian, whatever the characters’ sexuality.
Zheng says he thinks the shows are going OK “considering I’ve never been a TV host before.”
The show may have ditched its matchmaking section, but for those who
are interested - his accent is cute; he has a good sense of humour; and
he’s still single. 
|